About Robert S. Menders
I have been practicing law for over 30 years, focusing primarily on domestic relations and family law throughout Michigan.
Family law matters are often complex and deeply personal. My approach is straightforward—I take the time to understand each client’s situation, identify their priorities, and develop a clear strategy to move their case forward.
I handle all aspects of each case personally. From initial consultation through resolution, my clients work directly with me. I do not delegate cases to associates or pass them off to staff. This allows for consistency, accountability, and a level of attention that is often missing in larger firms.
Over the course of my career, I have handled a wide range of matters, including divorce, child custody, parenting time, child support, and spousal support. I am experienced in both negotiation and litigation, and I prepare every case with the expectation that it may proceed to trial, while always working toward efficient and practical resolution whenever possible.
Education
Juris Doctor, Thomas M. Cooley Law School, Lansing, Michigan
Bachelor of Arts, Michigan State University, East Lansing, Michigan
Admissions
State Bar of Michigan
United States Federal Court – Michigan
United States Federal Court – California
Professional Affiliations
Michigan Trial Lawyers Association
Federal Trial Lawyers Association
Oakland County Bar Association
Family Law Section, State Bar of Michigan
Mr. Menders went above and beyond for me with my divorce proceedings, even long after the divorce was final. I would recommend him to all of my friends, family and acquaintances.
I was very pleased with Mr. Menders work ethic. I felt comfortable with him handling my case. He helped me make the right choices during the entire process rather than doing things that could extend the duration of our case. He’s fair but also is a no nonsense attorney
I’ve known Robert Menders for over a decade and have had the opportunity to work with him on multiple occasions. He is consistently respectful, thorough, and highly professional. Robert brings a deep level of expertise to family law and approaches every matter with care, precision, and integrity.
Mr. Menders did an outstanding job representing me in my divorce case despite the many unnecessary hoops and hurdles placed in our way by my ex’s attorney. He resolved all issues in a professional and timely manner. I would highly recommend him.
Robert Menders has been the lawyer I have used for over 20 years!! In that time he has ALWAYS BEEN AMAZING!!
Mr. Menders is great at what he does. He has a lot of experience and is personally involved with every case his office is handling. He always strives to find a solution that would benefit everyone without having to get into a needless, costly fight.
I LOVED EVERY minute with Mr Menders. When I had a hopeless situation he showed me sunshine! He is human and has his flaws but I will tell you what he made me feel like a human being throughout the soul killing process of my divorce.
Mr. Menders has done everything and then some for me. Best lawyer around by far! Highly recommend.
Mr. Menders and Nina are great people to work with! Nina is always willing help answer a quick question and if she needs to find out the answer she gets right back to you. Mr. Menders will tell you like it is and will not steer you in the wrong direction.
Robert and his office have been amazing through this trying time. He has always given the information I need, helped with situations, and really cares about helping you get the best outcome possible. Highly recommended if you are looking for a great lawyer to help with your family!
If you want something done Robert and his assistant are the way to go. They both are very compassionate and will help you in anyway that they can. I am happy to have them by my side as I go through this ridiculous time.