About Robert S. Menders

Robert S. Menders is a Michigan family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience representing clients in divorce, child custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support, and other domestic relations matters throughout Michigan.

Family law disputes are often complex and deeply personal. Robert takes a practical, client-focused approach, working closely with each individual to understand their circumstances, identify their priorities, and develop a strategy tailored to their goals.

Unlike many larger firms, Robert personally handles every aspect of each case. From the initial consultation through final resolution, clients work directly with him rather than being passed to associates or support staff. This approach provides consistency, accountability, and individualized attention throughout the legal process.

Over the course of his career, Robert has represented clients in a wide range of family law matters, including contested and uncontested divorce, child custody disputes, parenting time issues, child support matters, and spousal support proceedings. He is experienced in both negotiation and litigation and prepares every case with the expectation that it may proceed to trial while remaining focused on achieving efficient and practical resolutions whenever possible.

Education

  • Juris Doctor, Thomas M. Cooley Law School, Lansing, Michigan
  • Bachelor of Arts, Michigan State University, East Lansing, Michigan

Admissions

  • State Bar of Michigan
  • United States Federal Court – Michigan
  • United States Federal Court – California

Professional Affiliations

  • Michigan Trial Lawyers Association
  • Federal Trial Lawyers Association
  • Oakland County Bar Association
  • Family Law Section, State Bar of Michigan

Mr. Menders went above and beyond for me with my divorce proceedings, even long after the divorce was final. I would recommend him to all of my friends, family and acquaintances.

Melissa Rushton

I was very pleased with Mr. Menders work ethic. I felt comfortable with him handling my case. He helped me make the right choices during the entire process rather than doing things that could extend the duration of our case. He’s fair but also is a no nonsense attorney

Jake Balkema

I’ve known Robert Menders for over a decade and have had the opportunity to work with him on multiple occasions. He is consistently respectful, thorough, and highly professional. Robert brings a deep level of expertise to family law and approaches every matter with care, precision, and integrity.

Marion Trent

Mr. Menders did an outstanding job representing me in my divorce case despite the many unnecessary hoops and hurdles placed in our way by my ex’s attorney. He resolved all issues in a professional and timely manner. I would highly recommend him.

James Kidd

Robert Menders has been the lawyer I have used for over 20 years!! In that time he has ALWAYS BEEN AMAZING!!

Melissa Krause

Mr. Menders is great at what he does. He has a lot of experience and is personally involved with every case his office is handling. He always strives to find a solution that would benefit everyone without having to get into a needless, costly fight.

Mirit Naim

I LOVED EVERY minute with Mr Menders. When I had a hopeless situation he showed me sunshine! He is human and has his flaws but I will tell you what he made me feel like a human being throughout the soul killing process of my divorce.

Michelle Lee

Mr. Menders has done everything and then some for me. Best lawyer around by far! Highly recommend.

Justin Lovins

Mr. Menders and Nina are great people to work with! Nina is always willing help answer a quick question and if she needs to find out the answer she gets right back to you. Mr. Menders will tell you like it is and will not steer you in the wrong direction.

Heather Randolph

Robert and his office have been amazing through this trying time. He has always given the information I need, helped with situations, and really cares about helping you get the best outcome possible. Highly recommended if you are looking for a great lawyer to help with your family!

Liv E.

If you want something done Robert and his assistant are the way to go. They both are very compassionate and will help you in anyway that they can. I am happy to have them by my side as I go through this ridiculous time.

Kristi Angel